Comments on: For Better or For Worse http://blog.prestonbailey.com/2010/04/05/for-better-or-for-worse/ Preston Bailey is an award winning event designer. He is renowned for his breathtaking weddings, unique floral designs, centerpieces, floral artistry, and inspired table settings. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 01:09:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Anonymous http://blog.prestonbailey.com/2010/04/05/for-better-or-for-worse/#comment-8673 Anonymous Fri, 16 Sep 2011 14:45:37 +0000 http://www.prestonbailey.com/?p=1928#comment-8673 Hi Preston, In answer to your closing question, I honestly don't know. Having just turned 50, I've learned to never say never and that change is forever so long as you are still above ground. My thoughts on infidelity have softened somewhat over the years, having come to an understanding that people falter and that all relationships are complicated. M. Hi Preston,
In answer to your closing question, I honestly don’t know. Having just turned 50, I’ve learned to never say never and that change is forever so long as you are still above ground. My thoughts on infidelity have softened somewhat over the years, having come to an understanding that people falter and that all relationships are complicated.
M.

]]> By: medical assistant http://blog.prestonbailey.com/2010/04/05/for-better-or-for-worse/#comment-4664 medical assistant Fri, 04 Feb 2011 21:28:45 +0000 http://www.prestonbailey.com/?p=1928#comment-4664 I never forget the voes i heard in American pie. It was hilarious. I wish its possible to be a little goofy. I cant be myself when I have to be emotional in front of lots of people. I guess I'm screwed. Any help? I never forget the voes i heard in American pie. It was hilarious. I wish its possible to be a little goofy. I cant be myself when I have to be emotional in front of lots of people. I guess I’m screwed. Any help?

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]]> By: Meli http://blog.prestonbailey.com/2010/04/05/for-better-or-for-worse/#comment-853 Meli Wed, 07 Apr 2010 15:09:13 +0000 http://www.prestonbailey.com/?p=1928#comment-853 Very difficult to say... I always had the philosophy that once something is broken broken in half, even if you put it back together, you will always see the cracks.... For me, the worst part is losing the trust that you had, and if you can no longer trust your spouse, than the marriage is doomed, as you will always live in fear which would eat you up inside... But then again, but I do believe that what you have built together is more precious, that it would be foolish to just throw it away (assuming that it was a one time thing).... Very difficult to say… I always had the philosophy that once something is broken broken in half, even if you put it back together, you will always see the cracks…. For me, the worst part is losing the trust that you had, and if you can no longer trust your spouse, than the marriage is doomed, as you will always live in fear which would eat you up inside…
But then again, but I do believe that what you have built together is more precious, that it would be foolish to just throw it away (assuming that it was a one time thing)….

]]> By: Lamby http://blog.prestonbailey.com/2010/04/05/for-better-or-for-worse/#comment-852 Lamby Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:18:18 +0000 http://www.prestonbailey.com/?p=1928#comment-852 Love your prenup Kristin :-) my husband is a car nut and would lose his mind if I did anything to his toys. You've posed a difficult question Preston, and one that obviously has no right or wrong blanket answer to. What I have noticed amoung my friends is women are more hurt by emotional infedelity than physical. Where as men tend to be the opposite....it's just an observation I've made and not based on any scientific fact - lol Personally I would be devastated if my husband emotioally cheated on me because that would destroy my self esteem and self worth. A physical fling I may get over, but it would cost him ;-) Love your prenup Kristin :-) my husband is a car nut and would lose his mind if I did anything to his toys.
You’ve posed a difficult question Preston, and one that obviously has no right or wrong blanket answer to. What I have noticed amoung my friends is women are more hurt by emotional infedelity than physical. Where as men tend to be the opposite….it’s just an observation I’ve made and not based on any scientific fact – lol Personally I would be devastated if my husband emotioally cheated on me because that would destroy my self esteem and self worth. A physical fling I may get over, but it would cost him ;-)

]]> By: Kristin http://blog.prestonbailey.com/2010/04/05/for-better-or-for-worse/#comment-851 Kristin Tue, 06 Apr 2010 05:05:56 +0000 http://www.prestonbailey.com/?p=1928#comment-851 It would really depend on the circumstances. With any of my previous relationships, infidelity should have been a deal-breaker (even when it wasn't), but that was due in large part to the fact that I was always going out with bad boys (and bad girls). What we had wasn't ever worth salvaging. With my current significant other, if he cheated, I'd need to know the who and the why. I could live with a hooker on a business trip, but if he was with some lawyer hottie from work who was smarter than me, I'd probably believe that he wanted out of our relationship but was afraid to face that. It comes down to intention, to whether he would want to save the relationship. I probably would; he's as good as gold, and he's worth some hard work. That said, I've asked him to write a clause into our prenup whereby if he ever cheats I get to set his car on fire, but apparently you can't contractually agree to an illegal act. (Also, holy cow. You're 61? Who are you, Dorian Gray?) It would really depend on the circumstances. With any of my previous relationships, infidelity should have been a deal-breaker (even when it wasn’t), but that was due in large part to the fact that I was always going out with bad boys (and bad girls). What we had wasn’t ever worth salvaging. With my current significant other, if he cheated, I’d need to know the who and the why. I could live with a hooker on a business trip, but if he was with some lawyer hottie from work who was smarter than me, I’d probably believe that he wanted out of our relationship but was afraid to face that. It comes down to intention, to whether he would want to save the relationship. I probably would; he’s as good as gold, and he’s worth some hard work.

That said, I’ve asked him to write a clause into our prenup whereby if he ever cheats I get to set his car on fire, but apparently you can’t contractually agree to an illegal act.

(Also, holy cow. You’re 61? Who are you, Dorian Gray?)

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